
Midlife Strategies for Badass Women is the go-to podcast for bold, brilliant women over 40 who are done playing small and ready to reinvent their lives—without guilt, filters, or apologies.
Hosted by Badass Midlife Strategist - Sue Willoughby, each weekly episode delivers unfiltered conversations, real stories of reinvention, and practical strategies to help you break free from the crap that’s holding you back and finally live life on your damn terms.
Whether you’re navigating a midlife reset, rediscovering your passions, building confidence, or launching your next chapter—this podcast gives you the mindset shifts, clarity, and community to make it happen.
🔥 Expect:
No-BS life advice and midlife strategies that actually work
Inspiring interviews with women who’ve transformed their lives
Soul-stirring solo episodes packed with truth and action
Coaching-style episodes to help you reclaim your purpose, power, and passion
This isn’t a podcast about “getting through” midlife.
It’s about owning it—louder, wiser, bolder, and unapologetically YOU.
Subscribe now and start rewriting the rules of what’s possible in your 40s, 50s, and beyond.
Episodes

Jul 22, 2025
Jul 22, 2025
18 min
What if midlife wasn’t something to survive—but the perfect time to reset, reclaim, and remember who the hell you are?
Welcome to Episode 1 of the Midlife Reclamation: Summer Reset Series on Midlife Strategies for Badass Women! In this solo kickoff, head badass midlife strategist Sue Willoughby invites you to shake off the “shoulds,” bust a few myths, and start reconnecting with what actually lights you up.
Through childhood stories, horse wisdom, and a little tough love, Sue challenges you to stop waiting for someday and take one small, joy-filled step toward reclaiming your midlife—starting this week.
🔥 In this episode:
- Why midlife is not a crisis—it’s a calling
- Three myths that are holding you back from feeling fulfilled
- Why reinvention is not selfish—it’s sacred
- How to reconnect with your inner badass through micro-actions
- A weekly challenge to reclaim what you’ve put on the back burner
Whether you’ve been feeling stuck, soul-tired, or just in need of a good summer reset, this episode is your permission slip to get messy, get real, and get back on the damn water skis.
🔗 Tag your micro-action this week using #MidlifeReclaimed and follow Sue on Instagram: @sue_willoughby
[00:00:00] - Opening Thoughts
[00:00:24] - Show Introduction
[00:01:13] - Announcing Summer Miniseries
[00:01:31] - Summer Memories
[00:04:02] - Puppy Otis Joins the Family
[00:05:16] - Launching "Reclaim Your Midlife" Series
[00:06:54] - Busting Midlife Myths
[00:08:34] - Starting a Midlife Shift
[00:10:06] - Quiet Reflection Exercise
[00:11:54] - Rediscovering Playfulness
[00:14:53] - Weekly Challenge
[00:17:23] - Episode Wrap-Up and Motivation
[00:18:08] - Midlife as a Breakthrough Message
FOLLOW and CONNECT
Website - https://www.willoughbycoaching.com/
Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/willoughbycoaching/
Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/sue_willoughby/
Linkedin - https://www.linkedin.com/in/suewilloughby/
Thanks to my amazing Producer and Editor Jess Grace Garcia (they/them) of Springwood Productions. https://www.springwoodproductions.com/
If you want to start your own podcast feel free to reach out to us. Jess and I would love to help you on your journey to sharing your story and passion.
#LifeWorthBeing #Transformation #LifeCoach #Women #Empowerment #PersonalGrowth #InnerStrength #PurposefulLiving #MidlifeTransformation #Mindfulness #Mindset #SelfDiscovery #WomenEmpowerment #midlifestrategies
Thank you for watching! If you're seeking more insights on living a truly meaningful and fulfilling life, be sure to subscribe to my channel. And don’t forget to hit the bell icon so you never miss an update!An extraordinary life starts within. Discover your inner strength and awaken a life worth being through experiential, equine-assisted life coaching. Welcome to My Universe! I am Sue Willoughby, Badass Midlife Strategist & host of Midlife Strategies for Badass Women—a podcast that dives deep to help you uncover the true meaning of a fulfilling life. This channel is here to inspire and empower women over 40 to step into their fullest potential, break through limitations, and truly thrive. Each week, we bring you powerful video podcasts filled with real-life stories of transformation, resilience, and courage. Expect raw, heart-centered conversations and life-changing insights designed to help you break boundaries and start crafting a life brimming with purpose, joy, and passion. This is more than just a channel; it’s a community. Join me to explore, grow, & connect with like-minded women on the journey to creating a life worth being. Subscribe now and let’s awaken your limitless potential together!

Jul 15, 2025
Jul 15, 2025
55 min
What happens when life forces you to stop—and finally listen to what your body’s been trying to tell you all along?
In this powerful episode of Midlife Strategies for Badass Women, host Sue Willoughby welcomes speaker, consultant, and founder of UnshakableMe, Heidi Blackie. After a lifetime of pushing through pain, burnout, and chronic illness, Heidi made a radical decision: to trust herself—and her body’s ability to heal.
What followed was a complete shift from survival mode to a soul-led life rooted in resilience, joy, and self-trust.
🌿 In this episode, we explore:
- The high cost of hustle culture—and how to break free from it
- How chronic illness became Heidi’s greatest teacher
- Why women hit midlife burnout (and how to recover)
- The daily practices that build unshakeable self-trust
- How to rewrite your story and reclaim your power—at any age
If you’ve ever felt stuck in survival mode, doubted your worth, or wondered “Is this all there is?”, this conversation is your reminder that the answers aren’t out there—they’re already within you.
🔗 Explore Heidi’s work at unshakableme.com
[00:00:00] - Intro
[00:01:24] - Guest Introduction
[00:02:32] - Athletic Life Background
[00:05:15] - 2016 Losses and Stressors
[00:07:46] - Turning Inward to Heal
[00:12:26] - Self-Healing Conversation
[00:14:16] - Velodrome Cycling Explained
[00:17:38] - Breakthrough via Daily Ritual
[00:23:35] - Living Present Like Animals
[00:24:56] - Joy Examples with Dogs
[00:26:01] - Creating “UnshakableMe” Program
[00:30:02] - Relationship with Self & Community
[00:34:32] - Acceptance Without Labels
[00:40:12] - Client Case on Boundaries
[00:42:42] - Women, People-Pleasing & Guilt
[00:45:53] - Horse Coaching Reveals Patterns
[00:47:19] - Future Program Plans & Grants
[00:48:08] - Gratitude for Ongoing Challenges
[00:49:02] - Midlife Strategies & Tips
[00:54:26] - Seed of Self-Belief; Closing Remarks
[00:55:26] - Episode Ends
FOLLOW and CONNECT
Website - https://www.willoughbycoaching.com/
Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/willoughbycoaching/
Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/sue_willoughby/
Linkedin - https://www.linkedin.com/in/suewilloughby/
Thanks to my amazing Producer and Editor Jess Grace Garcia (they/them) of Springwood Productions. https://www.springwoodproductions.com/
If you want to start your own podcast feel free to reach out to us. Jess and I would love to help you on your journey to sharing your story and passion.
#LifeWorthBeing #Transformation #LifeCoach #Women #Empowerment #PersonalGrowth #InnerStrength #PurposefulLiving #MidlifeTransformation #Mindfulness #Mindset #SelfDiscovery #WomenEmpowerment #midlifestrategies
Thank you for watching! If you're seeking more insights on living a truly meaningful and fulfilling life, be sure to subscribe to my channel. And don’t forget to hit the bell icon so you never miss an update!An extraordinary life starts within. Discover your inner strength and awaken a life worth being through experiential, equine-assisted life coaching. Welcome to My Universe! I am Sue Willoughby, Badass Midlife Strategist & host of Midlife Strategies for Badass Women—a podcast that dives deep to help you uncover the true meaning of a fulfilling life. This channel is here to inspire and empower women over 40 to step into their fullest potential, break through limitations, and truly thrive. Each week, we bring you powerful video podcasts filled with real-life stories of transformation, resilience, and courage. Expect raw, heart-centered conversations and life-changing insights designed to help you break boundaries and start crafting a life brimming with purpose, joy, and passion. This is more than just a channel; it’s a community. Join me to explore, grow, & connect with like-minded women on the journey to creating a life worth being. Subscribe now and let’s awaken your limitless potential together!

Jul 8, 2025
Jul 8, 2025
53 min
What if slowing down was the key to your next level of success?
In this inspiring episode of Midlife Strategies for Badass Women, host Sue Willoughby chats with high-energy keynote speaker, business coach, and bestselling author Kim Rogne about her bold decision to walk away from a 25-year real estate career and start over at midlife—this time on her terms.
After breaking her leg on a ski trip, Kim was forced to stop hustling long enough to hear the whispers of her heart. What followed was the launch of her company, For the Love of (FLOW), where she now helps high-achieving women and leadership teams thrive without burnout.
🎯 In this episode, you’ll learn:
- Why midlife is the perfect time to pause, pivot, or go bigger
- How burnout sneaks up on high performers—and how to reclaim your joy
- The power of asking yourself: “What do I want now?”
- Practical ways to balance your energy, your calendar, and your mindset
- Why you don’t have to sacrifice success to feel fulfilled
If you’re ready to stop running on autopilot and start living (and leading) with purpose and joy, this episode is your roadmap.
🔗 Connect with Kim: kimrogne.com 🛠️ Download her free FlowSelf Journal: flowself.com 📱 Follow on IG: @kimrogne
[00:00:00] - Introduction and Breckenridge Story
[00:00:26] - Podcast Rebranding and Guest Introduction
[00:01:53] - Guest’s Professional Background and Achievements
[00:03:03] - Transition from Real Estate to Coaching
[00:09:00] - Slowing Down and Self-Discovery
[00:15:40] - Finding Joy, Fun, and Identity
[00:21:44] - Coaching Philosophy and Approach
[00:26:30] - Women in Leadership and Business Dynamics
[00:32:06] - Ideal Clients and Realities of Real Estate
[00:34:54] - Tools, Assessments, and Personal Growth
[00:51:14] - Resources and Conclusion
FOLLOW and CONNECT
Website - https://www.willoughbycoaching.com/
Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/willoughbycoaching/
Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/sue_willoughby/
Linkedin - https://www.linkedin.com/in/suewilloughby/
Thanks to my amazing Producer and Editor Jess Grace Garcia (they/them) of Springwood Productions. https://www.springwoodproductions.com/
If you want to start your own podcast feel free to reach out to us. Jess and I would love to help you on your journey to sharing your story and passion.
#LifeWorthBeing #Transformation #LifeCoach #Women #Empowerment #PersonalGrowth #InnerStrength #PurposefulLiving #MidlifeTransformation #Mindfulness #Mindset #SelfDiscovery #WomenEmpowerment #midlifestrategies
Thank you for watching! If you're seeking more insights on living a truly meaningful and fulfilling life, be sure to subscribe to my channel. And don’t forget to hit the bell icon so you never miss an update!An extraordinary life starts within. Discover your inner strength and awaken a life worth being through experiential, equine-assisted life coaching. Welcome to My Universe! I am Sue Willoughby, Badass Midlife Strategist & host of Midlife Strategies for Badass Women—a podcast that dives deep to help you uncover the true meaning of a fulfilling life. This channel is here to inspire and empower women over 40 to step into their fullest potential, break through limitations, and truly thrive. Each week, we bring you powerful video podcasts filled with real-life stories of transformation, resilience, and courage. Expect raw, heart-centered conversations and life-changing insights designed to help you break boundaries and start crafting a life brimming with purpose, joy, and passion. This is more than just a channel; it’s a community. Join me to explore, grow, & connect with like-minded women on the journey to creating a life worth being. Subscribe now and let’s awaken your limitless potential together!

Jul 1, 2025
Jul 1, 2025
1 hr 5 sec
In this powerful episode of Midlife Strategies for Badass Women, Sue Willoughby sits down with Gina Economopoulos—whose life journey is anything but ordinary. Born into a large Greek-Italian family, Gina has worn more hats than most people dare to dream: social worker, bartender, nun, caregiver, author, and now a certified end-of-life doula. Her story is one of deep faith, unshakable resilience, addiction recovery, and spiritual awakening.
You’ll hear about:
- Surviving grief, trauma, and addiction
- Life inside (and outside) a convent
- Embracing sobriety after losing the love of her life
- The sacred calling of being an end-of-life doula
- How to find peace, purpose, and power in your own story—even after hitting rock bottom
If you’ve ever felt lost, broken, or unsure of what’s next, Gina’s journey will leave you inspired, grounded, and ready to reclaim your own midlife magic.
🕊️ Trigger warning: This episode contains honest conversation about grief, death, and addiction recovery.
Connect with Gina
Chapters:
[00:00:00] - Intro
[00:01:45] - Early Life and Family
[00:09:05] - Loss, Faith, and the Convent
[00:23:23] - Life After the Convent
[00:31:20] - Relationships, Addiction, and Loss
[00:39:07] - Recovery and Purpose
[00:43:11] - Becoming a Death Doula
[00:54:31] - Reflections and Closing
FOLLOW and CONNECT
Website - https://www.willoughbycoaching.com/
Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/willoughbycoaching/
Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/sue_willoughby/
Linkedin - https://www.linkedin.com/in/suewilloughby/
Thanks to my amazing Producer and Editor Jess Grace Garcia (they/them) of Springwood Productions.
https://www.springwoodproductions.com/
If you want to start your own podcast feel free to reach out to us. Jess and I would love to help you on your journey to sharing your story and passion.
#LifeWorthBeing #Transformation #LifeCoach #Women #Empowerment #PersonalGrowth #InnerStrength #PurposefulLiving #MidlifeTransformation #Mindfulness #Mindset #SelfDiscovery #WomenEmpowerment #Midlifestrategies
Thank you for watching! If you're seeking more insights on living a truly meaningful and fulfilling life, be sure to subscribe to my channel. And don’t forget to hit the bell icon so you never miss an update!
An extraordinary life starts within. Discover your inner strength and awaken a life worth being through experiential, equine-assisted life coaching. Welcome to My Universe!
I am Sue Willoughby, BAdass Midlife Strategist & host of Midlife Strategies for Badass Women — a podcast that dives deep to help you uncover the true meaning of a fulfilling life. This channel is here to inspire and empower women over 40 to step into their fullest potential, break through limitations, and truly thrive.
Each week, we bring you powerful video podcasts filled with real-life stories of transformation, resilience, and courage. Expect raw, heart-centered conversations and life-changing insights designed to help you break boundaries and start crafting a life brimming with purpose, joy, and passion. This is more than just a channel; it’s a community.
Join me to explore, grow, & connect with like-minded women on the journey to creating a life worth being. Subscribe now and let’s awaken your limitless potential together!

Jun 30, 2025
Jun 30, 2025
1 min
🎙️Midlife Strategies for Badass Women is your no-BS guide to owning your next chapter—with real talk, raw stories, and practical strategies for women 40+ who are ready to stop playing small.
Hosted by life coach Sue Willoughby, this podcast delivers weekly inspiration, mindset shifts, and unapologetic motivation to help you reclaim your fire, rewrite your story, and reinvent midlife—on your own damn terms.
Subscribe now and start living bolder, louder, and more unapologetically than ever.

Jun 26, 2025
Jun 26, 2025
1 hr 9 min
What happens when you follow your heart—into the unknown, into the wild, and into the arms of healing?
In this powerful Pride Month finale of A Life Worth Being, host Sue Willoughby reunites with filmmaker couple Dana Croschere and Krisanna Sexton, co-creators of the groundbreaking documentary Rescued Hearts. What began as a story about horses and healing turned into a two-year spiritual pilgrimage, spanning 5 countries, 31 cities, and the deepest parts of their souls.
In this episode, Dana and Krisanna share:
- How Rescued Hearts began, and the unexpected role South Africa played in its evolution
- The transformational healing they both experienced with Candace Webster and her herd
- The raw, real truth about creating—and living—a love that defies shame and conditioning
- Their shared sobriety journey, and how clarity became a portal to purpose
- Why they’re choosing to bring this film to communities, not corporations
If you've ever questioned your path, doubted your worth, or wondered what it really means to live—and love—authentically, this conversation will move you.
🎥 Learn more about the film and community screenings: https://www.rescuedheartsfilm.com
Chapters
[00:01:02] - Guest Introductions and Film Background
[00:04:14] - South Africa Trip and Its Significance
[00:08:14] - Impact of South Africa on the Filmmakers
[00:12:18] - Working with Horses and Healing
[00:15:13] - Vulnerability and Transformation
[00:18:32] - Navigating Creative and Personal Partnerships
[00:25:26] - Authenticity, Identity, and Overcoming Adversity
[00:31:07] - Fostering Acceptance and Representation
[00:34:00] - Podcast Milestone and Gratitude
[00:36:01] - Healing and Shared Experiences
[00:41:09] - Embracing Sobriety and Its Impact
[00:43:31] - Host's Personal Healing Journey
[00:46:12] - Inner Wisdom and Connection
[00:50:47] - Host’s Reflections and Connection with Her Horse
[00:53:31] - Reiki and Energy Sensations
[00:56:07] - Shared Practices and Energy Awareness
[00:56:25] - Wrapping Up: Film’s Future and Impact
[01:00:01] - Grassroots Impact and Long-Term Vision
[01:03:52] - Looking Ahead and Ongoing Mission
[01:07:28] - Legacy, Gratitude, and Closing Thoughts
FOLLOW and CONNECT
Website - https://www.willoughbycoaching.com/
Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/willoughbycoaching/
Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/sue_willoughby/
Linkedin - https://www.linkedin.com/in/suewilloughby/
Thanks to my amazing Producer and Editor Jess Grace Garcia (they/them) of Springwood Productions.
https://www.springwoodproductions.com/
If you want to start your own podcast feel free to reach out to us. Jess and I would love to help you on your journey to sharing your story and passion.
#LifeWorthBeing #Transformation #LifeCoach #Women #Empowerment #PersonalGrowth #InnerStrength #PurposefulLiving #MidlifeTransformation #Mindfulness #Mindset #SelfDiscovery #WomenEmpowerment #Midlifestrategies
Thank you for watching! If you're seeking more insights on living a truly meaningful and fulfilling life, be sure to subscribe to my channel. And don’t forget to hit the bell icon so you never miss an update!
An extraordinary life starts within. Discover your inner strength and awaken a life worth being through experiential, equine-assisted life coaching. Welcome to My Universe!
I am Sue Willoughby, transformational life coach & host of A Life Worth Being—a podcast that dives deep to help you uncover the true meaning of a fulfilling life. This channel is here to inspire and empower women over 40 to step into their fullest potential, break through limitations, and truly thrive.
Each week, we bring you powerful video podcasts filled with real-life stories of transformation, resilience, and courage. Expect raw, heart-centered conversations and life-changing insights designed to help you break boundaries and start crafting a life brimming with purpose, joy, and passion. This is more than just a channel; it’s a community.
Join me to explore, grow, & connect with like-minded women on the journey to creating a life worth being. Subscribe now and let’s awaken your limitless potential together!

Jun 24, 2025
Jun 24, 2025
56 min
What do you get when you mix an ex-lawyer, queer icon, stand-up comic, political satirist, and accidental contractor? You get Maggie Cassella.
In this unforgettable Pride Month episode of A Life Worth Being, Sue reconnects with her longtime friend Maggie Cassella—a powerhouse queer comedian, writer, producer, and self-described jill-of-all-trades. From bartending at one of Hartford’s first lesbian bars to launching North America's first queer comedy festival, Maggie’s done it all—and she has the stories to prove it.
✨ In this laugh-out-loud conversation, Maggie talks about:
Going from the courtroom to the comedy stage (thanks to a dare from Lea DeLaria)
Producing the first all-queer comedy fest We're Funny That Way
Lessons from decades of queer visibility and activism
The real deal on jealousy, legacy, and making space for the next generation
Her new work in film, TV writing, and the viral-ready jingle "She’s That Lesbian"
She also shares what it means to use humor as healing, and why kindness—more than fame—is the legacy that really matters.
📍 Maggie’s Website: https://maggiecassella.com/
🌈 Learn more at: https://werefunnythatway.com/
🎁 Support LGBTQ2S+ causes: https://rainbowcharitynetwork.org/
FOLLOW and CONNECT
Website - https://www.willoughbycoaching.com/
Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/willoughbycoaching/
Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/sue_willoughby/
Linkedin - https://www.linkedin.com/in/suewilloughby/
Thanks to my amazing Producer and Editor Jess Grace Garcia (they/them) of Springwood Productions.
https://www.springwoodproductions.com/
[00:00:00] - Podcast Anniversary & Introduction
[00:01:02] - Early Memories and Friendship Stories
[00:08:07] - Maggie Casella’s Career Journey
[00:11:22] - Comedy, Identity, and Evolving as a Comic
[00:21:15] - Creative Projects and Current Work
[00:29:03] - Mentoring, Ego, and Supporting Other Comics
[00:45:07] - Kindness and Personal Legacy
[00:53:13] - Outro and Resources
If you want to start your own podcast feel free to reach out to us. Jess and I would love to help you on your journey to sharing your story and passion.
#LifeWorthBeing #Transformation #LifeCoach #Women #Empowerment #PersonalGrowth #InnerStrength #PurposefulLiving #MidlifeTransformation #Mindfulness #Mindset #SelfDiscovery #WomenEmpowerment #Midlifestrategies
Thank you for watching! If you're seeking more insights on living a truly meaningful and fulfilling life, be sure to subscribe to my channel. And don’t forget to hit the bell icon so you never miss an update!
An extraordinary life starts within. Discover your inner strength and awaken a life worth being through experiential, equine-assisted life coaching. Welcome to My Universe!
I am Sue Willoughby, transformational life coach & host of A Life Worth Being—a podcast that dives deep to help you uncover the true meaning of a fulfilling life. This channel is here to inspire and empower women over 40 to step into their fullest potential, break through limitations, and truly thrive.
Each week, we bring you powerful video podcasts filled with real-life stories of transformation, resilience, and courage. Expect raw, heart-centered conversations and life-changing insights designed to help you break boundaries and start crafting a life brimming with purpose, joy, and passion. This is more than just a channel; it’s a community.
Join me to explore, grow, & connect with like-minded women on the journey to creating a life worth being. Subscribe now and let’s awaken your limitless potential together!

Jun 17, 2025
Jun 17, 2025
50 min
What does it really mean to be a man today—and what if the old rules never fit in the first place?
In this bold and heart-centered episode of A Life Worth Being, host Sue Willoughby is joined by coach, facilitator, and podcast host Travis Stock, whose work challenges outdated ideas of masculinity and invites people of all identities to live from wholeness.
A former social worker turned Equus coach, Travis shares how working with horses helped him break free from performance, perfectionism, and societal pressure. As the founder of The New Masculine podcast, he creates space for men, queer folks, and non-binary individuals to reimagine what leadership, connection, and emotional expression can look like.
💬 In this conversation, we explore:
How horses reveal what we’re really feeling—no hiding allowed
The trauma of masculine socialization and the cost of "being a man"
Why community and relational repair are essential to thriving
Using experiential coaching to unlock truth and transformation
The magic of Equus coaching (and a laugh-out-loud story about herding horses with a partner)
We also talk about our upcoming Equus Coaching Demo Day in August, and why now more than ever, it's time to reconnect to your body, your truth, and each other.
🔗 Connect with Travis at https://www.travisstock.com/
📱 Follow on IG: @travers03 - https://www.instagram.com/travers03/
🎙️ Listen to The New Masculine podcast https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/the-new-masculine/id1485250159
🎥 YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@travisstock781
Chapters
[00:00:00] - Introduction & Podcast Anniversary
[00:00:44] - Setting the Stage: Wellness, Control, and the Queer Community
[00:02:45] - Host Introduction: Sue Willoughby
[00:03:13] - Special Pride Episode Introduction
[00:03:26] - Meet the Guest: Travis Stock
[00:05:07] - Sue’s Equus Coaching Journey and Travis’s Influence
[00:07:44] - First Equus Coaching Session: Learning and Growth
[00:08:47] - Celebrating Milestones: Anniversaries and Collaborations
[00:10:18] - Ongoing Projects: Men’s Work and Retreats
[00:11:40] - Barriers in Men Seeking Personal Development
[00:15:16] - Shifts in Gender Socialization and Current Trends
[00:16:26] - Addressing Pushback to Men’s Work and Podcasting
[00:18:19] - Importance of Diverse Relationships and Conversations
[00:19:35] - Integrating Horses in Men’s Work and Coaching
[00:21:51] - Explaining Equus Coaching for New Audiences
[00:22:47] - Travis’s Equus Coaching Origin Story & Lessons
[00:28:11] - Client Example: Couples and Obstacle Herding
[00:32:22] - The Experiential Nature of Equus Coaching
[00:34:41] - Horses as Teachers of Authenticity and Joy
[00:36:40] - Podcast Milestone Reminders and Gratitude
[00:37:29] - Managing Focus and Energy for Personal Wellness
[00:40:03] - Upcoming Events: Retreat and August Demo Day
[00:44:04] - Building Understanding and Humanity Through Shared Stories
[00:47:32] - Closing Remarks and Gratitude
FOLLOW and CONNECT
Website - https://www.willoughbycoaching.com/
Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/willoughbycoaching/
Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/sue_willoughby/
Linkedin - https://www.linkedin.com/in/suewilloughby/
Thanks to my amazing Producer and Editor Jess Grace Garcia (they/them) of Springwood Productions.
https://www.springwoodproductions.com/
If you want to start your own podcast feel free to reach out to us. Jess and I would love to help you on your journey to sharing your story and passion.
#LifeWorthBeing #Transformation #LifeCoach #Women #Empowerment #PersonalGrowth #InnerStrength #PurposefulLiving #MidlifeTransformation #Mindfulness #Mindset #SelfDiscovery #WomenEmpowerment #Midlifestrategies
Thank you for watching! If you're seeking more insights on living a truly meaningful and fulfilling life, be sure to subscribe to my channel. And don’t forget to hit the bell icon so you never miss an update!
An extraordinary life starts within. Discover your inner strength and awaken a life worth being through experiential, equine-assisted life coaching. Welcome to My Universe!
I am Sue Willoughby, transformational life coach & host of A Life Worth Being—a podcast that dives deep to help you uncover the true meaning of a fulfilling life. This channel is here to inspire and empower women over 40 to step into their fullest potential, break through limitations, and truly thrive.
Each week, we bring you powerful video podcasts filled with real-life stories of transformation, resilience, and courage. Expect raw, heart-centered conversations and life-changing insights designed to help you break boundaries and start crafting a life brimming with purpose, joy, and passion. This is more than just a channel; it’s a community.
Join me to explore, grow, & connect with like-minded women on the journey to creating a life worth being. Subscribe now and let’s awaken your limitless potential together!

Jun 10, 2025
Jun 10, 2025
1 hr 7 min
What if living your truth meant blowing up everything you were taught—and finally building a life that actually fits?
In this inspiring and no-holds-barred episode of A Life Worth Being, Sue Willoughby sits down with Kit Sargent, astrologer, LGBTQIA+ mindset mentor, and host of the Queer Consciousness podcast. From being raised in a conservative evangelical household to coming out during the pandemic, Kit shares how they reclaimed their identity, unpacked decades of conditioning, and started helping others do the same.
✨ You’ll hear:
- How silence led to self-discovery—and eventually, self-acceptance
- The mental and emotional toll of suppressing identity for the sake of conformity
- The role of astrology in creating a blueprint for healing and growth
- Why community, storytelling, and curiosity are essential for collective liberation
- How queerness teaches all of us to live from the inside out, not the outside in
Whether you’re queer, questioning, deconstructing religion, or just trying to live a little more consciously—this episode is full of real talk, deep truth, and a few hilarious side quests.
🎧 Tune in now and remember: life is a choose-your-own-adventure—and you already have the tools.
🔗 Follow Kit on Instagram & TikTok: @sargent.says
🎙️ Listen to their podcast: Queer Consciousness
📧 Connect via email: queerconsciousnesspod@gmail.com
FOLLOW and CONNECT
Website - https://www.willoughbycoaching.com/
Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/willoughbycoaching/
Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/sue_willoughby/
Linkedin - https://www.linkedin.com/in/suewilloughby/
Thanks to my amazing Producer and editor Jess Grace Garcia (they/them) of Springwood Productions.
https://www.springwoodproductions.com/
If you want to start your own podcast feel free to reach out to us. Jess and I would love to help you on your journey to sharing your story and passion.
[00:00:00] - Introduction and Pride Month Celebration
[00:01:40] - Show Introduction and Host Welcome
[00:02:39] - Kit's Background and Purpose
[00:03:32] - Importance of Positivity and Community
[00:04:14] - Kit's Personal Journey and Coming Out
[00:09:33] - Linking Arms: Strength in Authenticity
[00:10:17] - Podcast Origins and Building Connections
[00:14:24] - The Flow of Energy and Resonance
[00:18:27] - The Process and Challenge of Coming Out
[00:21:39] - Different Upbringings: Shared Challenges
[00:29:09] - Embracing Queerness and Self-Acceptance
[00:31:03] - Coaching and Mentorship for Self-Discovery
[00:32:42] - Podcast Anniversary and Community Encouragement
[00:33:34] - Midlife Identity and Starting Anew
[00:36:24] - Elements of Astrology: Sun, Moon, Rising
[00:39:17] - Synthesis: Ego, Emotions, Evolution
[00:42:20] - Astrology, Experience, and Daily Impact
[00:44:05] - Astrology, Coaching, and Life Choices
[00:49:11] - Choices, Gut Feelings, and Butterfly Effects
[00:52:53] - Handling External Noise and Social Media
[00:58:53] - Journaling, Self-Observation, and Presence
[00:59:36] - Next Projects and Moving Forward
[01:01:32] - Storytelling and Community Visibility
[01:03:11] - Bravery, Authenticity, and Telling Stories
[01:04:44] - Wrapping Up: Fun, Connection, and Resources
[01:07:00] - Final Thanks and Outro
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An extraordinary life starts within. Discover your inner strength and awaken a life worth being through experiential, equine-assisted life coaching. Welcome to My Universe!
I am Sue Willoughby, transformational life coach & host of A Life Worth Being—a podcast that dives deep to help you uncover the true meaning of a fulfilling life. This channel is here to inspire and empower women over 40 to step into their fullest potential, break through limitations, and truly thrive.
Each week, we bring you powerful video podcasts filled with real-life stories of transformation, resilience, and courage. Expect raw, heart-centered conversations and life-changing insights designed to help you break boundaries and start crafting a life brimming with purpose, joy, and passion. This is more than just a channel; it’s a community.
Join me to explore, grow, & connect with like-minded women on the journey to creating a life worth being. Subscribe now and let’s awaken your limitless potential together!

Jun 3, 2025
Jun 3, 2025
50 min
What does it take to live fully as yourself—after decades of hiding who you really are?
In this moving episode of A Life Worth Being, Sue Willoughby sits down with Wendy Cole, a transgender woman who began her transition at age 67, after more than 45 years of trying to survive a life that never fit.
Wendy’s story is one of pain, resilience, and ultimately liberation. From her early childhood awareness of her gender identity, to the medical and societal gaslighting that kept her silent for decades, to finding the courage to step into her truth—this conversation offers deep insight into what it means to live authentically.
💬 In this episode, you’ll hear:
- Why gender identity is hardwired—and misunderstood by most of society
- How decades of suppression shaped Wendy’s mental health and relationships
- What finally sparked her transition and self-acceptance
- The impact of therapy, spiritual growth, and community
- How Wendy is now helping others by educating, speaking, and co-hosting the “Demystifying Transgender” podcast
This episode isn’t just for people within the LGBTQIA+ community—it’s for anyone who wants to better understand identity, inclusion, and what it means to meet someone with empathy instead of assumptions.
🎧 Listen now and be part of a conversation that’s long overdue.
🔗 Learn more about Wendy’s work: https://www.meetwendycole.com
🔗 https://www.facebook.com/wcole212
🔗 https://www.instagram.com/wcole212/
Chapters
[00:00:00] - Introduction and Anniversary
[00:01:02] - Wendy Cole's Early Life
[00:06:29] - Societal Challenges and Struggles
[00:10:39] - Transition Journey and Self-Discovery
[00:15:35] - Transition Process and Reflections
[00:18:57] - Gender Incongruence and Society
[00:20:39] - Anniversary, Pride Month, and Ongoing Conversations
[00:21:30] - Horses, Coaching, and Authenticity
[00:24:36] - Project Collaborations and Mastermind Group
[00:34:15] - Advocacy, Misinformation, and Awareness
[00:39:07] - Community Support and Safety
[00:43:34] - Importance of Open Conversation
[00:46:10] - Connecting with Wendy and Closing Remarks
[00:50:08] - Closing Credits and Next Episode Preview
Thanks to my amazing Producer and editor Jess Grace Garcia (they/them) of Springwood Productions. https://www.springwoodproductions.com/
If you are curious about starting your own podcast feel free to reach out to us. Jess and I would love to help you on your journey to sharing your story and passion.
FOLLOW and CONNECT
Website - https://www.willoughbycoaching.com/
Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/willoughbycoaching/
Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/sue_willoughby/
Linkedin - https://www.linkedin.com/in/suewilloughby/
#LifeWorthBeing #Transformation #LifeCoach #Women #Empowerment #PersonalGrowth #InnerStrength #PurposefulLiving #MidlifeTransformation #Mindfulness #Mindset #SelfDiscovery #WomenEmpowerment #Midlifestrategies
Thank you for watching! If you're seeking more insights on living a truly meaningful and fulfilling life, be sure to subscribe to my channel. And don’t forget to hit the bell icon so you never miss an update!
An extraordinary life starts within. Discover your inner strength and awaken a life worth being through experiential, equine-assisted life coaching. Welcome to My Universe!
I am Sue Willoughby, transformational life coach & host of A Life Worth Being—a podcast that dives deep to help you uncover the true meaning of a fulfilling life. This channel is here to inspire and empower women over 40 to step into their fullest potential, break through limitations, and truly thrive.
Each week, we bring you powerful video podcasts filled with real-life stories of transformation, resilience, and courage. Expect raw, heart-centered conversations and life-changing insights designed to help you break boundaries and start crafting a life brimming with purpose, joy, and passion. This is more than just a channel; it’s a community.
Join me to explore, grow, & connect with like-minded women on the journey to creating a life worth being. Subscribe now and let’s awaken your limitless potential together!

Sue Willoughby
Sue Willoughby is the Founder of Willoughby Coaching, where women over 40 confront their obstacles and change the trajectory of their lives through the power of Equus Coaching. Equus Coaching emphasizes the profound impact of non-verbal communication and self-awareness as clients engage with horses, gaining insights into their leadership, communication style, and personal growth. Sue took great comfort in working with horses during some of the darkest, most difficult periods of her life, and she now finds fulfillment in being the kind of mentor she wished she had in the past.
